I’ve officially been in the same situation for a whole year now. I’ve worked the same job; I’ve lived in the same apartment; I’ve pretty much had the same routine. I will be moving in an month (the details are vague at this point, but, yes, I do realize time is running out), so at least one change is coming up. I don’t know what else will unfold in the coming days, weeks, or months, but everything I’m doing now is kind of preparation for that change, whatever it is and whenever it comes.
As most of you know, I’m working to start up my own business. The actual result may be coming along slow, but I’m putting the pieces together for what I want, how I’m going to get it, and how things will work.
Several weeks ago, I encouraged my sister Julianne to join Twitter. She did, and I believe she’s posted just one tweet. (OK, there are two—the second was a response to me.) She’s currently getting her MBA and her tweet was about a class discussion.
“Discussing corporate culture and if you should hire based first on if they fit that culture or first based on their skills.”
Interesting right? These days I’ve been extremely interested in career fits and specifically company culture. (I know, I know; I’m such a dork.) A lot of this is because I know I need a very specific environment to be fully satisfied with a position. (I think I’ve only had one awesome work environment in my ooo fifteen jobs so far.)
So I’ve been noticing a lot about my current company culture—and exactly what I would change and how I would run things differently in my own company. And for now, what I want in a new job. Oh the learning experiences we gain from life!
One thing I’ve specifically noticed lately is that there is a definite negative manager/employee dynamic going on. My coworkers always complain, criticize, and ultimately undermine our department manager. (That said manager is on vacation this week, so the comments have been more vocal.)
Wow, this bothers me…and makes me really uncomfortable. And I’m realizing why: I feel like as soon as my back is turned, these same people are going to be complaining about and criticizing ME. Ultimately, I’m not comfortable because I feel as though I’m on the defense and trying not to let my possible inadequacies (and what would focus those negative comments on me) show. And that’s definitely not a good place to be.
I think I came to this realization because I’ve had a hard time when friends say negative stuff about other friends or acquaintances around me. Especially when I feel/know those people are likely to do the same thing to me. How can I trust these people when experience shows that the second something goes wrong, I could and probably would become the blunt of negative comments?
As most of you know, I’m working to start up my own business. The actual result may be coming along slow, but I’m putting the pieces together for what I want, how I’m going to get it, and how things will work.
Several weeks ago, I encouraged my sister Julianne to join Twitter. She did, and I believe she’s posted just one tweet. (OK, there are two—the second was a response to me.) She’s currently getting her MBA and her tweet was about a class discussion.
“Discussing corporate culture and if you should hire based first on if they fit that culture or first based on their skills.”
Interesting right? These days I’ve been extremely interested in career fits and specifically company culture. (I know, I know; I’m such a dork.) A lot of this is because I know I need a very specific environment to be fully satisfied with a position. (I think I’ve only had one awesome work environment in my ooo fifteen jobs so far.)
So I’ve been noticing a lot about my current company culture—and exactly what I would change and how I would run things differently in my own company. And for now, what I want in a new job. Oh the learning experiences we gain from life!
One thing I’ve specifically noticed lately is that there is a definite negative manager/employee dynamic going on. My coworkers always complain, criticize, and ultimately undermine our department manager. (That said manager is on vacation this week, so the comments have been more vocal.)
Wow, this bothers me…and makes me really uncomfortable. And I’m realizing why: I feel like as soon as my back is turned, these same people are going to be complaining about and criticizing ME. Ultimately, I’m not comfortable because I feel as though I’m on the defense and trying not to let my possible inadequacies (and what would focus those negative comments on me) show. And that’s definitely not a good place to be.
I think I came to this realization because I’ve had a hard time when friends say negative stuff about other friends or acquaintances around me. Especially when I feel/know those people are likely to do the same thing to me. How can I trust these people when experience shows that the second something goes wrong, I could and probably would become the blunt of negative comments?
But this is how we learn. I want an open company culture, with individual assignments but a collaborate overall effort. I want weekly staff meetings (I love meetings at work!) where everyone can report the status of their assignments, and if someone needs help or someone needs extra assignments, those issues can be dealt with there. I want the employees to feel useful and important and to know that they are contributing to something worthwhile. I want ideas to be respected, no matter where they come from. I don't want one person to make all the decisions. I want everyone to contribute ideas and ultimately come up with the best option together.